Goodbye unemployment

Don’t panic! I’m still a lady of leisure which means that you will continue to read stories about my muffin top in house pants! However, a handful of LOL crew members are saying goodbye to unemployment. Within the last month, four people got jobs which means they get to wake up early, shower daily and collect a decent paycheck – congrats! I can’t remember what it’s like to shower daily, but having four less stinky people in the world wandering the streets in Snuggies has to be a good thing!

Anyway, one of the newly employed in our crew wrote a little piece about what she learned during unemployment and I thought I’d share it will all of you. Enjoy.

Goodbye Unemployment: A Valediction. I have been employed for about three weeks now and it looks like it is going to stick. So, I figured it’s time to officially bid adieu to unemployment, homage style. A-hem.

What I learned while unemployed

The lessons of unemployment were frustrating at times, but ultimately fruitful. It’s true that necessity is the mother of invention, and unemployment was nothing if not a season of mandatory ingenuity. I learned to reach for my library card instead of my debit card. I expressed shock and awe to find that the rubber stamp library of my youth was now a self-scanning, multimedia haven of ways to humor oneself. I learned that lo and behold, West Seattle wasn’t all stroller mommies and cycle dads, and that there were more than a few fun, young, fascinating single ladies like myself ready to paint Alki red at a moment’s notice. I learned that it would take three times longer to find a new job than I thought it would. I learned how much my fiance loves me when I had to lean on him for financial support. I learned there is no financial substitute for feel-good moments like the natural beauty of Lincoln Park, the adrenaline of a bike ride, or the endorphins from a great deep conversation with a close girlfriend. I learned nights in playing board games or going for a walk can be a lot more fun than a fancy dinner out, especially when it is somewhere snobby and overpriced like Saltys. On the flipside, I learned you don’t have to sacrifice style for budget (thanks Sazerac and Cafe Presse). I learned to actually use the stuff I had by learning more about the capabilities of my digital camera and my mac, rather than adding new bewildering technologies to my life. I learned to find lost treasures in my closet and create fresh styles from old clothes rather than purchase new things. I learned volunteering can be just as fancy and thrilling as going out (wooh ArtsWest). I learned that your life passion doesn’t have to be all-consuming, and that just because I quit my last job to write a book doesn’t mean I can’t do a new little job on the side. I learned that you don’t have to save yourself for the perfect job. Settle for a job that’s less-bad than your last one. Most importantly, I learned that you are not your job. Many employed people are just as miserable, listless and frustrated as unemployed people. And no matter what job you end up taking, you’re still you. It’s your friends, your family, your personality, and your hobbies that define you, not your working gig. Last of all, I learned that Coming to America never gets old. Never.



Filed under Life, Random thoughts

6 responses to “Goodbye unemployment

  1. MADM

    A job if not what defines you as a person. Oh, how I wish more people really GOT that. I don’t care that you’re THE premier children’s neurosurgeon. You’re an asshole and I’m STILL not sleeping with you.

    I read something years ago that I have bastardized into being my own and have oft repeated to my children, it goes something like this:

    “When I die, people will not remember the car I drove or the clothes I wore or even where I worked. But if I have lived and loved well, they will remember my generous spirit, good humor and endless hospitality. That my family and those I loved were the reason for my being. My home was my sanctuary & a refuge for all who were weary.”

    I have always believed that your job was what you did to fill the time and pay the bills until you got the chance to get back to your “real” life.

    Got back on the horse, huh? You bitch – I mean congratulations!

  2. charlabob

    This is one of the wisest things I’ve seen lately — I plan to start practicing it tonight — even though I’m not (yet) unemployed. Tivo, here I come. 🙂

    The whole post is great, but this sentence stood out–preyed on my guilt and my good intentions.

  3. charlabob

    OK, perhaps I should have included the quotation about which I was speaking — fixed in next release:

    “I learned to actually use the stuff I had by learning more about the capabilities of my digital camera and my mac, rather than adding new bewildering technologies to my life. “

  4. Nice! It’s ok though for people to wander around with Snuggies on, lol.

  5. you’ll be back… they ALWAYS come back.

    Kidding… congrats on the gig, and way to take advantage of your downtime!

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